The secret to happiness lies in looking
only at positive aspects and not dwelling on the negative.
Yes! That is the
Answer!
It's as simple as that. If you want me
to elaborate read on, if you don't, put your thumb on Alt hold it down and now put your index
finger on F4. For those reading it on their iPads, Mobiles - Just exit.
For those who are still reading, I guess
you have time on your hands or have not followed my previous instructions
correctly and hence are still reading.
I have come across situations where
people are affected by another person’s mere presence and any gesture, verbal
misrepresented benign statements or any situation is perceived as a personal
attack and an invasion into their space.
Such an individual will inadvertently,
unknowingly seek reasons for that perceived threat and will always be on
guard.
This is a mild form of a mind disorder.
It is bordering on Paranoia to read more click on this link : http://www.minddisorders.com/Ob-Ps/Paranoia.html#ixzz48bNBi4sG
Disclaimer :
I am no psychologist, nor do I claim to
be, therefore any advice given by me in this post, is my interpretation of what
should be done and not a
direction for you to follow it. It
is your choice to pick what you like, and discard the
rest.
Phew I feel safe now! - Getting back to
my take on avoiding conflict and staying happy... I believe that if you let
anything get to you, it will consume you and overpower your senses. Therefore,
if you have to let anything get to you, let it be only positive experiences.
I have seen too many people self-destruct
by just focusing on the negative aspects of life.
It may be harder to do, but if practiced
enough it can make a world of difference in your life. Negativity and misery on
the other hand loves company and catches on quickly. It can be detrimental to
one's life and to his/her surrounding if we let ourselves get sucked into this
dark void of negativity.
Life ain't a bed of roses, but if you
keep focusing only on the thorns you'd never enjoy the beauty of the rose.
You've got one life to live, fill it
with love, laughter and great memories.
