Showing posts with label Safety for Women. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Safety for Women. Show all posts

Saturday, 12 April 2014

F.U.C.G



F.U.C.G

It's election time and I am excited to vote. It is a tough decision to pick the best candidate, because each one is far better than the rest. The pre-election debates and speeches have left me awestruck and I am befuddled by the wide choice of supremely intelligent, articulate, progressive and honest candidates.

Each one is genuinely looking for the welfare of the public; their selfless act to stand for elections to make a difference is commendable. Only a few such heroes step up and take charge to make a difference for the better. Money and fame is the last thing on their mind, it is these qualities that confuses me when picking from a bunch of 'Angels'.

The crime rate has dropped over the last few years and women are a lot safer now. A few men have made mistakes and for that they need to be taught a lesson. I would recommend that they should write a 100 times that they need to respect women and that they are sorry for what they did. I am sure such a punishment is more that suitable for a small petty mistake.

How can you blame such people ? Everyone makes mistakes and to give them a harsh penalty like death is terrible. I agree with some of our learned leaders running for election, it is also the woman’s fault for being raped. The so called victims are physically present in front of such innocent men. How can you blame a guy for not acting on his natural animalistic urges.

If a woman feels she is going to get raped, she should run faster, or call them brother or try to reason with them and most of all it is her fault for being born a woman. 

In the Delhi rape incident or the Kamla mills incident, it was the woman's fault. It is always the woman's fault. These poor innocent men who were just minding their own business got excited because the so called victim was present at that time.

They committed a small mistake are made to pay so heavily. I also feel sorry for the people who are thrown into jail every day for committing petty crimes like murder, armed robbery, and terrorism. It’s not their fault that they had to kill someone; it is the fault of the other person who presented him/herself to be killed.

Yesterday, the media and a lot of people were angry with one candidate for saying that women who have consensual sex before marriage should be hanged. I agree with him, as it is wrong and these acts should be punished.

Condoms, birth-control and other sex pills should be banned. You should only have sex to procreate and nothing else, it should not be for pleasure. In fact any married person engaging in this immoral act should take written permission from the government. Like the archaic laws of the west "F.U.C.K" (Fornication Under the Consent of the King). This will be "F.U.C.G" (G - government).

All movies that show women in attire other than a sari or a salwar should be banded. Jeans are evil and all western wear should be banned. Only saris and salwars. Tube tops, spaghetti straps, summer dresses, etc etc should be banned. In fact all beauty products, perfumes should be banned, as women using them entice innocent men to look at them.

Women should also try and work hard to look unclean, disheveled, and down right ugly. She should not expose any part of her body. If an innocent man still rapes her. It is her fault for not trying hard enough to appear unavailable. 

Women under the age of 18 should not have cell phones, and once they turn 18 they should only use one in the presence of a family member (male). If she is out and that is not possible then she should only accept incoming calls from her family. Chats like FB, WhatsApp, BB, and Twitter should be banned.

We are a nation that doesn’t promote such vile and uncultured behavior. We need to protect our motherland from getting poisoned and tarnished by the evil, regressive and backward western ways.

I would also recommend that all foreign trips should be banned. We should shut down our airports to prevent any evil foreigners from coming to India and corrupting our poor gullible and innocent citizens. India should be cut off from the rest of the evil world. Our channel should only air, holy programs and the news.

Computers, the internet should only be used to send emails and all sites that depict women is clothes other than a sari should be blocked by the government.

If we get all this in place and adhere to it. Our country will be the greatest nation filled with only pure, broadminded individuals. 

If we still have men committing such petty crimes like rape. Hang all women!

Saturday, 29 December 2012

Monsters in your Living Room

This is not a post about childhood nightmares or a spin off the animated movie Monsters. it's about the possible monsters lurking in each one of us.

Sounds scary doesn't it...well it is. Each one of us has a dark side, whether we would like to admit it or not, we are all capable of committing the most vicious crimes known to man. What prevents us from indulging in these horrific acts is our conscience. It's the little voice in our head that helps us choose between Right /Wrong and Good /Evil. In animated cartoons it's the little angel on the right shoulder and the devil on the left.

After I wrote the post on The Mayan Were Right, it got me thinking, could we really pin point why such acts of violence manifests itself in some individuals ? what drove them to a point where the lines of right and wrong were blurred.  I remember in the movie 8MM when the serial killer was caught he told the Detective, "it not what you expected did you?" He said he had a happy childhood and was raised right" then what drove him to go off the handle?

Some things will always be a mystery, are people who appear to be socially well adjusted really sane?
Can we be certain that the monsters that lie within stay controlled? it's a scary thought.

Alcohol most often brings out the real person, and some people fight so hard to appear well adjusted. For those in relationships, watch-out for the signs, If you don't like what you see when your partner is drunk, its not going to go away once they are sober. It will always be under the surface waiting to explode. Men who hit women in a fit of rage, are likely to repeat this again and again.

Most women, who are abused mentally, physically and emotionally need to know that the tormenting will not stop IF they do not put a stop to it. By forgiving a physical assault no matter how minor it may be, they are subconsciously okaying that abuse. 

I did make some references to computer games in my previous post, people do enjoy shooting at each other and after sometime they need a bigger stimuli to get a high, could this be one of the causes for violence ? well it just could.

By banning violent games the problem will not go away as most have tasted blood and will go to great lengths to get that high. As humans we are programmed to survive and they will find a way to hide their deviant selves. A new strain of delinquent behaviour will surface once they control what they know to avoid getting caught.

We need to reinforce the right behavior with our peers, social groups and raise our children to be good citizens. Reinforcement of the right behavior will not cure but prevent the deviant behavior from surfacing. 

We are all living on the edge and dancing with wolves in sheep's clothing, we can never say that we are really safe, cause you never know what lies beneath.

Friday, 21 December 2012

The Mayans Were Right

21st December 2012 3:54am… According to the Mayan calendar the world is supposed to end today. If you are expecting a worldwide catastrophic calamity that will bring an end to humanity, well it’s not going to happen.

However I believe that the Mayan’s were right, but it doesn’t mean that the Earth is going to explode before the day ends, it just means that humanity is scarce and will soon be non existent.
The horrific senseless acts of terror and inhumanity, that occurred in the last couple of weeks is proof enough, that humanity no longer exists.

Last week a 20 year old, mercilessly massacred 27 people most of them kids. How depraved do you need to be to shoot innocent kids for no reason? and most of them were shot more that eleven times.

A couple of days ago, six men gang raped and mutilated a young 23 year old girl in a bus. The girl was later thrown out of the moving bus and she succumbed to her injuries yesterday. Rapes and murders have become an everyday affair. Bombay was once known to be the safest cities for women, but was it really safe? Or have the media become more vigilant. I believe that more than half of the crimes committed are not reported. The recent spate of murders and rapes makes Bombay no safer than swimming in a lake infested with hungry crocodiles.

Scores of protests demanding for stricter laws to curb these crimes are spurting all over the world. But what we fail to realise is that, the frequency of these heinous acts are increasing. Sure, we have laws that will prevent people from carrying weapons, and have the harshest punishment given to people who commit such crimes, but will it deter people from committing these monstrous acts of violence? I think not, it will only make them look for other alternatives to commit these crimes.

The people, who resort to these inhuman acts, are sick depraved heartless individuals and no law will change their state of mind. The question we should ask ourselves is why are so many people resorting to such inhuman acts of violence? What drives them to commit such crimes? are television and media fueling such violence?

I would say it does play a part, but it can't be the sole reason why people go off the handle and become monsters. I do believe that lack of adult supervision and guidance is also one of the major factors.
Parents are so busy trying to either make ends meet or working to secure a better life for themselves and for their children that they forget to spend that quality time with their kids. They substitute that lack of time shared by giving their kids money.

I have seen work-life balance go out of whack and it’s not surprising why some kids do become deviant. However this is also not the sole reason why people commit such crimes. It is a combination of heredity and environment.

Life is not what it used to be, video games have become far more advanced from the times of ‘Super Mario’ and ‘Packman’; they have artificial intelligence and are realistic.

With the advancement in technology these games have become more realistic and some of them fuel these acts of violence. I read that there are games created with the objective of raping and stalking a person. The videos on the internet also cater to the sick needs of some licentious soul.

We have movies that showcase some of the harshest realities of life. 8mm showcases pornography to its extreme (snuff films) in which at the end of the act the woman is actually brutally murdered.

It is illegal, but some people will pay a lot of money to see it. Humanity is dead and we are living in a world that gets more apathetic day by day. After a horrific crime, we tweet about it, we talk about it, we hold protests and ask for the death penalty and after a few days, weeks or months, we go back to our busy lives and forget about it.

Do these heinous acts really shake our spirits, or are they just topics of discussion? Have we become inured to such behaviour? I guess we have. Our only hope is to instill the right values in the youth of today, so that we may have a better tomorrow.